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Wedding bands are a symbol
of love, unity, and partnership between married couples. It
signifies to the world that two lovers are committed to one
another and have exchanged sacred vows to each other. The
couples spend lots of time selecting wedding bands for their
wedding. It has become a tradition. Men have adorned their
wives with wedding bands for thousands and thousands of years.
However, the issue of men’s wedding bands is a different
story.
It is just recently that men’s wedding bands have become
a part of the wedding tradition. Before this time, most men
felt that any sort of jewelry was not manly. Jewelry was for
females and that was that. If men wore wedding bands, it was
clearly a matter of choice. Women were obliged to wear their
wedding bands to signify that they were, in fact, married.
In some cultures women were considered their husbands property
and their wedding bands were the legal tender for “purchase”
of the bride. It is clear to see why men considered wedding
bands to be feminine.
With this type of stigma attached to a wedding band, they
chose not to don one. Only those men who were truly passionate
about expressing love for their wives wore wedding bands.
Men’s wedding bands rose in popularity during the Second
World War. Thousands of married men were shipped off to battle.
They knew that it could be months before they would ever see
their wives. They then chose to wear wedding bands to remind
them of their lovers while they were so far away. It is said
that men would often look at their wedding bands in remembrance
of their wives during hard war times. After this period in
history, men became more accepting of men’s wedding
bands.
The status of men’s wedding bands is quite the opposite
of its past status. Now, the majority of married men wear
wedding bands. In fact, completely different factors determine
if a man will wear a wedding band. For example, certain professions
forbid wearing wedding rings because it’s dangerous
or it hinders the work. Police officers, actors, and electricians
are all dissuaded from donning wedding bands for various reasons.
Some construction workers do not wear men’s wedding
bands, because the work that they do could severely damage
the wedding band.
Any man who does choose to wear men’s wedding bands
must consider a few things. First, he must choose a band that
is proportionate to the size of his hands. If a man has larger
hands, he will likely choose a wider band and greater band
thickness. The opposite is true of men with smaller hands.
Next, he must choose a men’s wedding band design based
on his personal style. He may like a simple band with no design
or he may want intricate details and engraving. The last thing
to consider is the metal. He may choose from gold, platinum,
titanium, and white gold. Each metal has its own individual
properties, style and benefits. For example, some metals are
light-weight, some are hypo-allergenic, and some are less
expensive than others.
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